Young adults in the U.S. are experiencing a very different trajectory than their parents, with more of them hitting key milestones later in life and also taking on more debt, according to a new report from the Pew Research Center.
A majority of young adults say they remain financially dependent on their parents to some extent, such as receiving help paying for everything from rent to their mobile phone bills. Only about 45% of 18- to 34-year-olds described themselves as completely financially independent from their parents, the study found.
Not surprisingly, the younger members of the group, those 18 to 24, are the most likely to rely on their folks for financial support, with more than half relying on their parents to help take care of basic household expenses. But a significant share of 30- to 34-year-olds also need assistance, with almost 1 in 5 saying their parents provide aid for their household bills.
More broadly, the survey offers a portrait of a generation that’s struggling with debt in a way that their parents did not, with more of them shouldering student loans and, for those who own a home, larger mortgages than their parents had at their age. But the analysis also showed that young adults expressed optimism about their futures, with 3 in 4 who are currently financially dependent on their parents saying they believe they’ll eventually reach independence.
I bet they’re just lazy. They should just buy less machiatos and avocados. They could fix their economy if they bought this new cheap and fantastic product called “Gruel”. You can also get the lunch variety, “Scop”. Only available through company credits.
As a guy who almost exclusively “eats” Soylent, I feel targeted lol. I know your post is supposed to be dystopian satire, but… Unironically though, I’m the healthiest I’ve ever been (375lbs -> 225lbs), and my monthly food expenses are less than a quarter of what it used to be. Been doing this almost 8 years now and while I recognize it’s not for everyone, some people could use a little gruel.
The problem is it should be optional. A family of 4, a single parent, or a college grad working 60hrs a week shouldn’t only be able to afford gruel.
If you watch old educational and industrial movies from the 1950s (yes, some of us here on Lemmy are, amazingly, weird), you find out that people living on a single income of a father working at a service station could afford a house and a decent dinner for their family.
That may not be 100% accurate, but the fact that they even show it as plausible would be seen as utter nonsense today.
Even going back to the 1980s- Both Roseanne and Dan in Roseanne have trouble holding down a job, but they can still afford a house for their large family and they don’t go hungry. Even on Married With Children, they are poor, but they have a house for their four-person family and don’t go hungry on a single shoe salesman’s salary and no one thought, “how ridiculous! A shoe salesman? With a house?” at the time.
You do have to factor in race, that a lot of what you see on tv was idealised even at the time, and that we now also have unimaginable luxuries that we take for granted. Proper insulation, phones, computers, unlimited music, etc.
In 1950 you could buy a median US house for $20k. A fridge/freezer cost $400, a tv cost $300 and a washer and dryer would cost $500.
Now a median house costs $400k. If the cost of household appliances and electronics had risen as much as houses had, a freezer would cost $8000, a tv would cost $6000 and a washer + dryer would set you back $10000.
I dont know a single person who wouldn’t be happy to buy a 8k freezer, a 6k tv and a 10k washer+dryer if it meant they could buy a 20k house.
The appliances were adjusted for inflation, but not the house. $20k in 1950 is $250k today. Median home price in the US is $450k today. So your point still stands, I think.
Average wage in 1950 was something like 5k. So that 20k house is four years wage.
Average wage now is over 50k. Would you be happy to buy a house for four years wage at 200k? Of course you would.
But would you be happy to buy a typical 1950s house with lead pipes, lead paint, asbestos insulation, no central heating and perhaps not even warm water? Questionable. It’s the same thing as with cars. 1950s cars were far more affordable. They were also death traps and a recent diesel VW golf can easily outperform many an 80s ferrari.
Of course, it’s not 1950. The world is far richer and more technologically advanced. Anyone should be able to afford a small home and the basics on a minimum wage job. If that’s not possible anymore, then society (and the government) is failing.
Youre aware a living fuck ton of houses are the same 1950s ones that they bought back then, right? Likely with a few decades of miscellaneous updates, but surely not enough to make a 200k house worth the 400-450k they go for on average now.
Basically, a house now costs 8yrs wage, not 4. Many of those houses are the same ones that used to go for 4yrs wage.
You think because someone paid 10k to update the electrical and tossed in 20k for hvac over the decades its just a wash though, eh?
It’s also worth noting the quality of the items you were receiving. Those washers and dryers never broke, and if they did, they were easily repairable.
You can still buy commercial grade fridges and washing machines for half the price.
Obviously it was idealized, but no one looked at it and thought “this is absolutely ridiculous and unachievable.” And definitely race is a factor, since all the families I mentioned were white, and in the 1950s also benefited from the whites only G.I. Bill, but the idea that it was achievable for anyone on a low income as plausible rather than so idealized as to be impossible shows that it wasn’t as ridiculous as it is today.
I mean you also had poor families, both white and black, on TV- The Honeymooners and Good Times both come to mind. But even there, they did mostly okay. And Good Times took place in the projects.
Don’t forget the Simpsons. Dad, 3 kids, a homemaker spouse, and two pets in a 2 story home with 4 bedrooms, 2 1/2 bathrooms, a garage, basement, and a huge yard in a safe neighborhood. All that on a blue collar salary.
Used to seem totally normal but now that I type that all out it sounds insane
It wasn’t that normal even then.
Wow what a plot, I’ve been watching the Simpsons recently so now I’m excited to get to season 8, what a great show
Optional if self-sufficient, sure. I don’t believe that the taxpayer should subsidize the unhealthy eating choices of a family of four that are all each 50-150lbs overweight. A working family should be able to afford healthy foods in reasonable portions on their own. “Government cheese” should probably be gruel. We’d have a much healthier population, and the economic benefits of the taxpayer not also subsidizing the healthcare of the obese later on would be substantial. Heart disease is our #1 population killer by miles, and it feels like we’re all taking crazy pills about it.
And I say this as a guy who was once simultaneously 375lbs and poor. I made bad choices, and the healthy choices were a lot cheaper than the bad choices I was making by the virtue of sheer volume. Society should not have been responsible for me should I have needed assistance to maintain that lifestyle.
Optional if self-sufficient, sure.
A working family should be able to afford healthy foods in reasonable portions on their own. “Government cheese” should probably be gruel.
Your idea of is to limit the options of an already limited class by restricting their food choices/feeding them gruel? Considering the price of healthy food costs more, the limited options in food deserts, lack of time to cook for ppl working long hours, and everything else that affect poor ppl when it comes to food options your idea is to punish the poor instead of fixing the culture and systems that perpetuate the problem? Ppl don’t even get that much money now on WIC.
Society should not have been responsible for me should I have needed assistance to maintain that lifestyle.
Except that’s what the government is suppose to do. If you fit the parameters for aid regardless of circumstances, you fucking get it. If 1 fat lazy slob gets aid for every 5 who really needs it, im fine with that.
A working family should be able to afford healthy foods in reasonable portions on their own.
Except what you think should be doesn’t really matter when the reality is the opposite. This sounds like sound ass backwards right-wing libertarian bullshit.
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ONlY pPl I ThINk DeSErve AiD sHOuld GEt iT
Only people who try to help themselves deserve help from others. Why should the government support someone’s bad eating habit when they don’t support someone’s alcohol habit, or cocaine habit? My argument is not that people don’t deserve subsidized help; my argument is that as a society, we should look at a mcdouble and see cocaine, not an apple. All I’m proposing is consistency.
If you step back from your “personal responsibility” argument and personal feelings, you’d see that all data points to the fact that eliminating means testing for safety net recipients always produces overall higher rates of success, leaves less people who need help to fall through the cracks, saves money for the government, is far more effective at helping people get back up on their own, and introduces no significant rise in fraud.
You’re letting your feelings about how individuals “should” behave (a very subjective and culturally-driven standard) get in the way of what data and numbers from past large-scale experiments have shown us.
It’s not about feelings, or fraud. It’s about believing that the models everyone loves to cite don’t accurately portray the complexities of reality. The reality is that even with record poverty and unemployment, we also have both record levels and record severities of obesity transcending generations.
Do any of those models account for the healthcare cost burdens of the willfully unhealthy as they transition into their elderly years? If so I’d genuinely like to see those models. In the research I’ve done, most models fall short of projecting long-term impacts and related costs. Yeah of course I can get behind supporting people out of bad situations with less oversight if the math works out. I just don’t think the math works out when you actually account for long-term impacts of supporting bad habits.
Why should the government support someone’s bad eating habit when they don’t support someone’s alcohol habit, or cocaine habit?
I’m not a doctor at all, but for certain addictions, people can die from the withdrawls that occur if they just stop. I’d imagine in those cases rehab and treatment requires supporting the habit via the drug itself or a safer analog in order to keep the individual alive so that they are able to draw down and eventually quit whatever the source of their addiction is.
For example:
I would support programs that weaned people out of unhealthy eating habits, and ones that accommodate for special dietary needs (fiber, insulin, etc). That seems totally reasonable.
Very similar. I am on two bottles of Soylent a day to lose weight. It is working but I can’t wait until I get to normal weight and not have to drink soy juice anymore.
There is something so wrong with everything when I am working at my desk, my 12:00 alarms beeps, I spend two minutes drinking my lunch, and now I can just go back to work. Like what the fuck. My ancestors toiled for a 100,000 years for this?
Do you have a plan for not rebounding? The thing about weight is it’s simple, not easy. Simple as in calories in <= calories out. Not easy as in willpower to maintain the net equation. If you get down to a weight and immediately go back to what you were doing, you’ll just gain the weight right back. Your lifestyle shift doesn’t need to be bottles of goup for 2 meals a day but you do need to find a sustainable way to have <= 400kcal breakfasts and lunches forever.
My solution was to just keep drinking the goup lol
Do you use the powder? How do you typically mix things up?
I did the powder for the first ~3 years when I was starting out. I lost almost all the weight in 1.5 years, and since then have just lowered bodyfat percentage and increased muscle mass, while maintaining weight. These days I’m in a better position financially and can afford the premium of the ready-to-drink bottles so I mostly do that. Unironically I found that “mixing things up” with flavors and additives triggers that hunger within me to consume. I don’t mean hunger like caloric, stomach grumble hunger, I mean hunger like an addiction hunger. Keeping it to a single flavor, and a strict schedule helps me turn that part of my brain off and I can now make the mental distinction between “fuel” and “pleasure”. When I am out for date night with the wife or have people over for football it’s “pleasure”. When I’m getting up in the morning for work or eating lunch in-between tickets or sitting down for dinner between work and evening leisure it’s “fuel”. I consume accordingly, and single-flavor soylent is my “fuel”.
Not them. I use the bottles. I did the powder for a while but kinda fell off of it. Thinking of going back, my coworker wants to introduce me to the world of flavor additives to Soylent so that should be fun I guess. Peanut butter and banana Soylent doesn’t sound so bad.
You honestly piss me off because I have a mystery disease and have not eaten solid food for five months. I live on Ensure and Gatorade. The fact that you can choose to eat want you wanted but don’t?
And sure, I’ve lost weight too. And I was overweight. I’m now within 10 pounds of my ideal weight according to my BMI. I don’t get to go to the Mayo Clinic until the end of March. I will be underweight by then. Possibly significantly- my weight loss amount tends to fluctuate, but it can be over a pound a day sometimes. Hoo-fucking-ray. Oh yeah, also I’m not spending much on food BECAUSE I CAN’T FUCKING EAT IT.
(Please no medical advice. If I’m going to the Mayo Clinic, you don’t have the answer.)
I’m far from alone even with people who don’t have mystery diseases. There are plenty of people on severe dietary restrictions because of their health who would love to do nothing more than eat a large pizza or a burger, something they will never be able do to again for the rest of their lives.
Go eat some real food. Because you can.
I haven’t been so annoyed in a while.
I upset you because… I found a sustainable way to eat better without breaking the bank, and I’m now healthy for it? I’m sorry that you have to deal with whatever you’re dealing with; nobody deserves to live in a universe where their body rejects common foods. I’m not a doctor don’t worry; I have no medical advice for you. I do have some philosophical advice though. You should look within to figure out why you’re mad at me; I’m not your enemy.
You upset me because you could eat whatever you want and instead live on nutrition shakes when, not just me, but a huge number of people wish they had the choice you did. And wouldn’t brag about it.
I cannot “eat whatever I want”. Eating whatever I wanted lead me to be 375lbs. Since I cannot eat whatever I want, I choose to eat something convenient, easy to count, and inexpensive to obtain. I live a life closer to yours than you think, constantly wishing I could eat whatever I desired and remain healthy. I brag about it because for me it’s hard to choose to do the right thing, and I make the right choice every day, multiple times a day.
An alcoholic should be proud to brag about being 8 years sober, shouldn’t they?
Okay, you’re right. I apologize.
We’re all in this world together dude/dudette/dudelse, I truly wish you the best and hope you get whatever you’ve got figured out. I’m glad we found some common ground; that’s what this place (is? should be?) all about!
Something something bootstraps
I live with my grandparents. My 80 year old grandmother who never had to work offers me daily career advice. They bought many 3 bedroom brick homes in the late 80’s for 15k and now rent them out for close to 1k per month. I love them dearly, but they’ve contributed to holding back an entire generation from homeownership. They got to enjoy life on easy mode and now wonder why I can’t get my shit together. They wonder why I’m not buying a 350k house on a $15 an hour income, or getting married and starting a family.
Because you took everything and won’t give it up. Because you used all the easy to reach resources. Because you fucked up pensions and healthcare and education and housing and every other facet of society and now don’t care that I’m living in the shitstorm you created. Fucking hell.
Ask them for a house and see what happens.
Someone’s getting used bootstraps for Xmas!!!
At least they’ll be nice and tight instead of all stretched out. Those grandparents’ bootstraps were never pulled.
Please let me know where I can rent a 3-bedroom brick home for 1k per month and sign me up with your grandma’s rental business.
They aren’t super nice houses or anything. They’re just small brick homes, maybe 1,200 Sq ft. They’re what used to be considered starter homes, and now they’re probably worth around 140k. The problem is there are no job opportunities in a small rural town other than fast food and grocery stores. No young person can afford to buy these old “starter homes” when they make $12-14 an hour. It would be irresponsible even for a 2 income household to finance something like these houses, and they are the cheapest in town.
New developments are going up because the older generations sell off their family land for insane prices. The new houses go for 350k. It’s killing small towns because the young people leave. I don’t know what the answer is, but I daydream about living simply in small villages and truly having a life vs whatever the fuck this is.
Just as designed. This generation is going to be the most educated in history and that’s horrifying to those in power, because between that and the free flow of information on the internet (until the tech industry walls it off) means the same line of bullshit they’ve perpetuated for over a century won’t fool this generation.
Good on you all! Keep educating yourselves, asking questions and when they dismiss you be loud until they have to answer.
In 1960, minimum wage in the US was $1.00/hour and the price of the average house was $11,000.00 That was before Nixon decided to drop millions of tons of bombs on Vietnam and pay for it with paper money. Reagan came along and paid for his tax giveaways by printing even more money. In 1960, $1 million was considered a vast fortune that could buy a dozen luxury homes. Now it’s what a rich guy pays for a party.
GOP polices destroyed the middle class.
What you are describing is inflation. It was a thing before Nixon, and will continue to be a thing in the future.
You’re funny. Yes, inflation existed before Nixon, and warfare existed before nuclear weapons. Just because something exists, that doesn’t mean it can’t be made worse.
unless we on mass decide to ditch the confetti money and go to a real money such as gold or silver like we used to
Then you deal with debasement though?
This isnt quite a caveman take but close.
We should separate money and state completely and have a money that the state cannot ever control. And my vote is physical gold and silver or monero
I’ll do you one better. Let’s just stop using money altogether. It’s kind of dumb.
How would we trade resources through cows or would you just shoot people and take theirs? Because money represents an easy way of trading resources back and forth. And it’s a standard because cows don’t weigh the same, etc.
See, we already rely on the government to establish our currency and distribute it to begin with. It really just seems like a middle man with extra steps.
Capitalists really seem to hate the idea of governmental control Over commodities, but that’s literally all a government does even with money at the helm. The very money they produce.
Young people could set up conditions to make a lot more money if they would all vote but the rich have convinced people that tax cuts for the wealthy are more important.
if they would all vote
I’m sick of this fucking victim blaming. There’s a reason why the DNC doesn’t release demographic information for the primary elections. It’s because the Boomers are dominating the primaries and enabling the DNC to continue running the same procorporate trash they’ve always run. If you’re going to shame younger people for not voting then in the same sentence you should be calling out Boomers for being selfish pieces of shit and electing the worst possible options and fucking over everybody else.
When the DNC fucked over Bernie I lost all faith.
Acksually if your parents and friends would stop voting for trump then the world would be a better place
We got handed a shit sandwich.
