Oh nice! I’m stoked about the background sidecar operations, that will speed things up considerably

Thanks! I’m perfectly capable of both. They say cringing at your former self is a sign of growth

Honest answer? When trump said “Take the guns away first, due process later.” I was a pretty big gun nut at the time and it felt like a slap in the face. Shortly afterwards I encountered a YouTube video that actually explained the science behind climate change in a way that made it obviously true and that I hadn’t encountered before. The conservative worldview is a house of cards, once you take out a couple the whole thing falls apart pretty quickly.

Now I’m a very progressive atheist and more than a little ashamed of my former self. Still like guns, but I keep that to myself

Yeah, I wish he’d go back to being the greenhouse on mars guy

i used to be a republican so

but there is a reason i just explained it to you

Ok but is there room for the idea that your intuitions are incorrect? Plenty of things in the world are counter-intuitive. ‘docker-compose up -d’ works the same whether it’s one container or fifty.

Computer resources are measured in bits and clock cycles, not the number of containers and volumes. It’s entirely possible (even likely) that an all-in-one container will be more resource-heavy than the same services split across multiple containers. Logging from an all-in-one will be a jumbled mess, troubleshooting issues or making changes will be annoying, it’s worse in every way except the length of output from ‘docker ps’

I can see why editing config files is annoying, but why exactly are two services and volumes in a docker-compose file any more difficult to manage than one?

I disagree with pretty much all of this, you are trading maintainability and security for easy setup. Providing a docker-compose file accomplishes the same thing without the sacrifice

• separate volumes for configuration, data, and cache because I might want to put them in different places and use different backup strategies. Config and db on SSD, large data on spinning rust, for example.
• separate container for the database because the official database images are guaranteed to be better maintained than whatever every random project includes in their image
• separate networks because putting your reverse proxy on a different network from your database is just prudent

you scold people like this irl too?

Obviously I’m aware that people face all kinds of challenges and stressors, it’s the entire fucking point of my first paragraph. I wasn’t trying to start a “who’s more stressed” contest here, it was a throwaway half-joke attempt to make OP feel better.

Seriously, internet, can you chill? Do I have to speak with absolute precision and clarity at all times?

dude what the fuck

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I think in general people should be understanding of each others’ situations and make things easier on them where possible.

Speaking as a parent, I can pretty much guarantee that you are living a less stressful life than your coworkers with kids. Not sure it means much but hey

After a lifetime of allergies, I’m really good at Dracula-sneezing in the least bad direction

I have a guy at work that keeps inserting obvious AI slop into my life and asking me to take it seriously. Usually it’s a meeting agenda that’s packed full of corpo-speak and doesn’t even make sense.

I’m a software dev and copilot is sorta ok sometimes, but also calls my code a hack every time I start a comment and that hurts my feelings.

For passwords you have to keep in your head, diceware. Surprised it’s not already mentioned! Basically you roll dice to choose words from a long wordlist until you have 6 or 7 words.

Human brains are good at remembering words. It’s way easier to remember a password that looks like:

grandson estimator virtuous scabbed poet parasitic

than it is to remember a random character string.

I’m sorry, that came off as meaner than I meant it to be. I’m genuinely trying to convince you that if you get your mind and attitude in a better place, you’ll have no trouble with dating. Learn to love yourself and the rest will follow.

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Stay off the incel forums bro, unless you want to be one forever. They might seem like an understanding support system, but those guys have real toxic and self-sabotaging ideas about dating and women in general.