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  • I’m referring to the platonic ideal of therapy; if you have a bad therapist, then find a new one. If you can’t… then that sucks.

    But also, there’s a reason I said “therapeutic ideas”: I don’t go to therapy. I already have really strong muscles for self-improvement. The point of therapy, whether you pay for it or not, is to build them if you don’t have them.

    In this sense, therapy is 1-to-1 synonymous with becoming a better person. If you’re doing the same work outside of a therapist’s office, that’s a meaningless different to me.

    and this tweet immediately went to making fun of them

    This tweet is framing the issue intentionally to land a punchline, they’re not talking about the actual guy.


  • There is. Listen, I’ve watched enough shonen to know that acquiring a positive attitude in the face of adversity is a source of profound strength.

    I’m not saying it’s easy.

    The world is burning right now? Yeah, and? These are the times you need it the most. This is the time all that mental practice was for.

    If a tiger strolled in on your month-long wilderness vacation and bit half your leg off, what, do you just bleed out? Roll over and die? Most men I know know that that’s the time you need to pull yourself together, rid yourself of worldly concerns like panic, tourniquet the wound or whatever, and get yourself to a goddamn medic.

    The tiger runs off in this scenario, by the way. It was scared by a… bird. “I wouldn’t have a chance to give up—the tiger would eat me!” Shush.



  • Therapy is mostly about meditation, coping strategies, and self-improvement.

    I think you might balk at the suggestion of developing coping strategies at all, but this:

    being able to completely disconnect from all this shit for a month

    Is a coping strategy. It doesn’t really fix anything, but it does help you manage stress. I assume you can’t take a month off, so therapy would say, “Okay, what’s a second idea.”
















  • You know, I’m not so sure I agree, actually.

    It is really, really, really easy to engage with content on Youtube passively. That is, without really paying attention.

    If a person watches Angela Collier on a side screen while playing a video game or something, and can’t really recall anything she’s talked about, I don’t know if that really counts.

    You could say that people who watch Angela corrolate with people who do pay attention, but then I’d say that people who watch Angela corrolate with people who own books.