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Cake day: June 29th, 2023

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  • Yes. So much, easier.

    The big improvements in your future:

    • reliably sleeping through the night ~3 YO for my boys (biggest improvement by far)
    • reliable day time toileting, so not having to carry “the bag” everywhere
    • better appetite/impulse control, ~4 YO, not always having to have a “kid snack” on hand. So you don’t have to constantly think, when they last ate.

    Those are just a few big ones in your immediate future. There are bunch more smaller things.

    One word of advice, don’t accept “I don’t like it”, before they taste any food. The rule in our house is “is OK to not like something, but not OK to not try something”. Fussiness is learned not innate. Too many parents give in way too quickly, and I see kids who don’t eat anything but stuff they are already comfortable with.

    Another commenter said to encourage age appropriate independence. 100% agree. Example, a few weeks back on Sunday morning my 10YO comes into my room and asks to make pancakes for breakfast, answer “sure, but you have to make enough for everyone (5 of us) and any mess is your responsibly to clean up”. He got his brothers to help, 4YO getting utensils and setting the table, 7YO mixing and measuring, whilst he cooked.

    It is an adventure, that’s for sure, three are super frustrating moments (daily) but there rewards are immense.



  • I started when it was still called TextSecure, I had precisely 1 contact (just my nerdy friend from uni) for the first 3 years. I then convinced my partner to install it, had 2 contacts for the next few years.

    When it became Signal, a few more jumped on. Once I had kids; I bullied my family onto it, by refusing to send photos any other way.

    I have 62 contacts now, the bulk of my digital communication is through either Signal, phone, email or Lemmy. There is a little SMS/RCS.

    It has been a 15 year journey so far, for me. You will get there.










  • absGeekNZ@lemmy.nztomemes@lemmy.worldThems the rules
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    17 days ago

    Taught my boy to play connect 4. Had to start paying attention to by the time he was 7, by now (10) he is a challenge to beat, often just draw.

    I have to try to win chess now also. It is great.

    My 11yo nephew is a challenge to beat in chess, I think I’ll probably not win next time we play.

    My 7yo can read music, I can’t… It is the way of the world.