You’re right that interactions are not hugs, but they create friendships with people with whom it is both socially acceptable and emotionally healthy to hug. If you don’t hug your friends, you’re missing out in life.
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Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•Antivax is a way for people to rationalise their fear of needles
6·2 days agoWell, some of them do. Shingles was the most painful shot I’ve ever had in my life. It hurt the rest of the day and then some. Measles was the second most painful, but only for the duration of the shot itself and a short time after.
But I imagine the shingles shot to still be far less painful than actual shingles, from what people have told me of it, so I’d still choose the shot every time.
Well, as I said, I’m not actually interested in getting the worker in trouble. The employer, however, is taking advantage of multiple refugee and immigrant “employees” in various ways, this the most provable. I put employee in quotes because the others are being (under) paid by irregular means; meanwhile, the employer siphons money for their own self.
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Canada@lemmy.ca•Why are so many trades apprentices struggling to complete their programs?
1·11 days agoThis happened to a young man I knew who was trying to get into HVAC. He had to start all over again and find someone new who would actually sign his hours. He eventually did, but I could just add easily imagine if it didn’t happen.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What phrases of wisdom have really stuck with you?
6·13 days agoEssentially what you said, but I’d like to phrase it the way a counselor said it to me when I was under a lot of stress at work. Stress is the gap between our expectation and reality. Say you expect to be/produce/achieve/whatever 100%, but you are only capable of achieving 80%. The stress you experience is that 20% gap. Change your expectations to meet your reality and that stress will be resolved.
Now, it may still be that others might still want or expect that 20% from you, but that’s their problem and their stress. If you cannot produce it anyway (which created your stress in the first place), existing in the stress-gap clearly won’t make you able to do it anyway.
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Canada@lemmy.ca•Arrests, detentions of Canadians in U.S. up 60 per cent, Ottawa says
12·13 days agoI have an American friend who is terminally ill, and it’s possible I may never see them again 😞
Not medical advice, but a suggestion of easy things to ask your doctor to check for if you have insomnia, and inexpensive to address if they are the culprit: taking taking B12 and D supplements gave me (back?) my ability to sleep. I’ve never slept better in my life.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What are good eReaders for document review, looking for something document/"A11" (I think) sized full-page readers that are easy to load documents and make highlights and stuff?
2·17 days agoBoox has 10.3" and 13.3" models: https://shop.boox.com/collections/all-products/13-3 The 13.3 would be closest to A4 (assuming that’s what you meant, A4 or 8.5x11). They run Android, you can install other reader apps like Kindle, Kobo, Libby. You can load PDFs by USB (which I do). There was a browser interface which I’d tried and it worked, but I just don’t use it. No idea if it’s still available. The built-in reading app can mark up epubs the same as PDFs. I purchased a Wacom stylus that has a side button for the eraser function because the original it comes with has the eraser on the top. I didn’t like having to flip the stylus over.
I have a predecessor 13.3" model, the Max Lumi, which is no longer available, but I am still fairly pleased with it. I’d gotten mine for the purpose of splitscreening a document on one side and notebook on the other side, to take notes for school. If I were to buy again now, I would go for the slightly smaller 10.3 size to be more portable, but unlikely to use spiltscreen. I would also opt for colour (which was not yet an option when I bought mine.)
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Whats the funniest reason youve ever unmatched someone/been unmatched on a dating app?
3·17 days agoHmm, I see what you’re putting down. I may have to revise my thoughts on the matter. Thanks.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Whats the funniest reason youve ever unmatched someone/been unmatched on a dating app?
101·17 days agoWhile I agree those ladies were a bunch of loonies, I don’t think the test is supposed to be predictive (this is how you will be), rather descriptive (this is how you are).
Although I’ve had this same argument with people over the function of dictionaries being descriptive (this is how words are used) rather than prescriptive (this is how you should use words).
A tenet of Taoism is that nothing is constant and everything changes. We can have peace and be clear-minded by moving with, around, even redirecting the changes, rather than directly resisting them.
I’m not a taoist, but I think that’s pretty damn wise.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Would you want to live in a country other than your own? If so, where and why?
5·18 days agoFYI, the wait for processing is now years-long, due to the large influx of applications and the lack of foresight to increase staffing to manage that. Also, if you don’t already have the documentation to prove who your grandfather is, his citizenship, and who you are in relation to him, archives across the country have been inundated with requests for this kind of genealogical information, and they, too, are under-resource to handle it. (And not only so, but arts, culture, and heritage institutions have had budget slashed all across the country, so there are actually fewer people now to handle these requests.)
Exec was committing fraud and self-enrichment thru work. Snitched to the board with evidence, they did nothing. One even told me he wasn’t concerned. Noped outta there and snitched to the government instead.
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Canada@lemmy.ca•Ontario-based air ambulance missing with 6 on board, U.S. Coast Guard search underway
2·21 days agoThe US Coast Guard has stopped their search. What a tragedy.
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Canada@lemmy.ca•Canadian who moved his family to Russia for ‘traditional values’ says he no longer recommends it: permanent residency would require signing a Defense Ministry contract
18·21 days agoPeople may call you a racist, mysogynist, homophobe, and/or transphobe if you act like a racist, mysogynist, homophobe, and/or transphobe.
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Canada@lemmy.ca•Proposed class action alleges Quebec and Canada are denying prisoners the right to vote
5·21 days agoThe better question is why shouldn’t they? Are prisoners not human?
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Canada@lemmy.ca•Ontario-based air ambulance missing with 6 on board, U.S. Coast Guard search underway
4·21 days agoI had the good fortune of meeting the owner and some of the staff recently (not as a patient). They are very kind, caring people. They didn’t use the word “family”, but they sure felt like one, with the way they talked with and about each other. They’re not a very big outfit, with just a handful of planes. I can’t imagine the devastation they must be going through.
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Canada@lemmy.ca•‘Buy Canadian’ movement just as strong 19 months since trade war began: poll
9·22 days agoYou realize that you’re talking about “buying Canadian”, but dissatisfied that the Canadian broadcaster doesn’t have American shows, yes?
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Star Wars Memes@lemmy.world•Sure, Mr. Jackson. Just give us a moment to retcon some stuff.English
1·23 days agoAre you familiar with the reputation of sabreurs being the crazy people among fencers? 😂



I don’t see why LPC feds should care? I mean, beyond basic human decency. This is US policies and actions applied to US PRs. It had nothing to do with Canada or Canadian laws. Why don’t you leave the blame where it rightly lies, with the US and its unconstitutional gulag?