Is this part of a low fodmap diet or just a food preference thing? Either way you can get a lot of decent recipes just searching low fodmap x.

also pasta with roasted or sauteed cherry tomatoes is my go to, top with basil/parm/whatevs

Unfortunately, 40% of every dish I make is yellow onion and garlic so I don’t think I can help.

There are some Indian dishes without them. I’ve had good results making things from a book called The Art of Indian Vegetarian Cooking. No onions or garlic are used in any of the recipes and there are plenty without beans.

Maybe wife is vampire

So possibly try some Romanian cabbage rolls https://www.jocooks.com/recipes/sarmale/ Substitute onions for green onions.

Oatmeal. Not exactly date night, but it’s hot and healthy.
Get large flake oats, not the instant stuff.
Boil 1 cup of water in a small pot.
Decrease heat to mid-low.
Add 1/2 cup oats. Stir only once.
Cook for 10 minutes,
let cool for 10 minutes,
eat for 10 minutes.

You’ll want to watch it closely for a minute or two after you add the oats to make sure it doesn’t boil over. If it looks like its going to boil over just remove the pot from the heat till it calms down, and decrease the heat a little maybe, every oven is diff. It still needs to simmer though.

You can season it with whatever you want after cooking it: maple syrup, milk, oat milk, brown sugar, chocolate chips, raisins or other dried fruits (if you do raisins add them to the water before the oatmeal), cinammon, apples… etc.
Maybe a small pinch of salt.

Do you know if this is some specific allergy or a general food sensitivity? I am sensitive to fructans, which are a FODMAP in all of those foods, except the green parts of an alium (garlic, scallion, onion, leek). I take an enyzme called Fodzyme which helps me digest fructan rich foods when I can’t avoid it.

Chicken marsala pappardelle! Super tasty and surprisingly quick and easy. https://www.saltandlavender.com/chicken-marsala-pasta/

Just skip the 1/4tsp of garlic powder, it shouldn’t suffer for that. Odd tip, I found the marsala wine in the baking isle of the grocery store of all places.

You can replace sauteed onions with similarly cut and sauteed eggplants. Different flavour, similar function.

You can sub beans with chickpeas in almost any beans-based recipe and they work really well.

Garlic is mostly used as a seasoning, so it’s fine to simply not use it. Depending on the recipe you could sub it with ginger, cumin, pepper sauce, or green onions. (Note: use the green onions as garnish.)

Onion depends a lot on the role in the dish. If it’s just adding a bit of flavour, treat it like garlic - not use it, or sub it with another seasoning. If you’re using it as a veg you’re better off replacing it with another chunkier veg, depending on the dish bell peppers might do the trick.

Anyway. Here’s something that I often prepare, I’ll adapt the recipe to avoid onions and garlic. It’s one pot as long as the chickpeas are already cooked (I bulk cook 1kg of them and freeze each time); if starting with dry chickpeas please take that into account.

• 250g random bits of pork, diced. Leftover porkchops? Bacon? Sausages? Yes.
• already cooked chickpeas. Amount is eyeballed but ~250g of dry chickpeas.
• 1 cup of white, long grain rice
• 1 yellow or red bell pepper; or half green pepper (it tastes strong). Diced small.
• random broth or plain water
• seasoning: brown sugar, paprika, salt, grated ginger, curry powder, and acid (vinegar or lime juice)
• [garnish] green onions
• some veg oil

1. Rub brown sugar, paprika, and salt on the diced pork (go easy on this if it’s bacon). Then use the veg oil to brown it on the outside, on high fire. Make sure to brown it well, the sugar isn’t there for sweetness, but for a caramel taste.
2. Wash the rice and add it to the pot, alongside the ginger. Let it “fry” a bit in the oil alongside the pork.
3. Add already cooked chickpeas (including their cooking water), the bell pepper, curry powder, and the acid. Add broth/water as you deem necessary, and correct the salt. Low fire, keep it barely simmering, until the rice is cooked.
4. When the rice is cooked, garnish it with green onions and enjoy.

Vegetable sushi, no soy sauce though its made with garlic
Cut cucumber in long quarters
Make 2 cups dry rice
Mix together 1/4 cup brown sugar and 1/2 cup unseasoned rice vinegar
Add the mixture to the rice after it finishes cooking and while it’s still hot
Mix it in until it starts to get sticky
Get a small cup of room temp water
Take seaweed sheets and spread the rice thinly across it, leave ~2 cm at the end unriced (for sealing)
Lay the cucumber across the rice and roll it up, doing the uncovered end last. Use the water to moisten the 2cm stretch so that it sticks to the roll and seals it closed.
Cover and refrigerate them until they cool, cut and eat

You can top with toasted sesame seeds for added flavor.
Candied ginger is also nice.
Matchsticked carrots marinated in sugar and vinegar too.
You can get creative with the vegetable.
I like my wasabi in soy sauce so I won’t suggest it.

Edit:
I should also mention that different rice will have different results. Cal-rose rice works well. Basmati rice not well.

Here’s one that only uses green onion (which can be left out really if desired):

Cedar planked salmon with grilled peaches and soy ginger vinaigrette

Serves four

For the vinaigrette:

2 tablespoons rice wine vinegar 1 tablespoon olive oil 1 teaspoon soy sauce 1 teaspoon honey 1/2 teaspoon finely grated fresh ginger root 1/4 teaspoon sesame oil Pinch red pepper flakes or more to taste

For the salmon:

1 ½ pounds wild salmon fillet 2 ripe but firm peaches, pitted, skin-on 4 scallions (green onions) 1 teaspoon olive oil Salt and pepper to taste 1 15-inch cedar grilling plank, immersed and soaked in water for one hour

Preheat gas or charcoal grill to medium-low heat, about 350 F.

In a small bowl, whisk vinegar, olive oil, soy, honey, ginger, sesame oil and red pepper until combined, and set aside.

Cut peaches in half, cutting stem end to tip. Remove pits and brush with oil. Season salmon with salt and pepper and drizzle with one tablespoon of vinaigrette.

Place plank on grill, close lid and heat for about three minutes. Flip plank, using tongs, and place salmon on heated side of plank. Close lid and cook for 10-15 minutes until salmon is medium-rare.

Remove salmon from grill and place scallions and peaches, cut side down on grill. Grill until grill marks begin to form on peaches, about four minutes per side, and onions are slightly charred and tender.

Slice peach halves in half, roughly chop scallions, place in a medium bowl, tossing with half of remaining vinaigrette.

To serve, plate peaches and onions with planked salmon and drizzle with remaining dressing just before serving.

There are some communities that feel garlic or regular onions are too strong, and substitute the white of leeks. It does affect the resulting taste, but if your wife tolerates them, it’s an option.

My own suggestions for recipes would include some classic Slavic dishes where onions aren’t essential. These do exist, 😁 particularly ones that mix sweet, sour and savoury flavours. e.g., Crepes/nalasnyky filled with farmers’ cheese and butter or cream, traditionally served with sour cherry or strawberry preserves on top, are a favourite. For a savoury version, try these nalasnyky with dill in the cheese filling.

https://imgur.com/gallery/DVm07Zf /s

Spaghetti carbonara is always a winner. A lot of people make it with garlic but traditionally it’s just guanciale (or pancetta or bacon depending on what’s available for you), eggs, cheese, and noodles. It’s the Italian bacon egg and cheese. There are plenty of good recipes but whichever one you choose, the key to getting the emulsification right is to mix the cheese and eggs together cold and then add them to the pasta heat off while stirring quickly. Add the leftover water from boiling the pasta in small amounts until you get the consistency you want. The sauce should be creamy, not thin or chunky.